Lily and Dunkin by Donna Gephart
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Lily is about to start 8th grade and is trying to work herself (and the rest of the world) out. Where she fits, where her parents (especially her father) want her to fit, and how she is going to get there. When she goes out to help Dad bring in the groceries she locks eyes with a new boy in the neighbourhood. A boy carrying a Dunkin’ Donuts bag. They smile at each other and Lily’s heart races – until her blustering father who doesn’t like her to be outside the house “dressed like that” forces her inside. Norbert, the boy with bag, has recently moved to Lily’s town and comes with his own set of family hassles, and also wonders where he fits.
Lily and Norbert (Dunkin) become friends and we travel through their story in alternating narrative. Lily is desperate to start taking hormone blockers in the next step to becoming who is she is inside. Her mother is supportive, but Dad is just not on the same page. She is bullied at school and to top things off, the tree she and her grandfather loved to climb together is scheduled to be felled to make way for a community park. Emotions are running high in her family. Then she meets Dunkin and a friendship blossoms.
Dunkin has his share of family stuff going on as well. He is addicted to donuts and iced coffee for one thing. For another his superfit, super-motivated Bubbie is always trying to get him to do some kind of physical activity. Dunkin has anxiety issues, but they start to dissipate a little when he bravely tries out for the basketball team. His superior heigh means he is an instant hit and it seems he may have found a niche. But then he stops taking his medication and things spiral.
Lily wants to tell Dunkin who she really is, her story, but is reluctant to do so when he starts hanging out with the “jocks”. Dunkin’ wants to tell Lily heis secrets, but doesn’t know how and now that guy Phineas is talking in his head all the time making things really difficult at home and at school, and mentally he is on a knife edge.
These two characters are on a collision course that eventually sees them up a tree protesting it’s impending demise. Lily and Dunkin’ are relatable characters – their circumstances as a transgender person (Lily) and someone with a mental illness (Dunkin’) just serves to highlight all their amazing qualities – especially their resilience. Supporting characters, especially Dunkin’s grandmother Bubbie, and Lily’s friend Dare, are also well realised and help to move the story along with their loyalty and support of the protagonists.
A wonderful, affirming, novel for young adults – and even us older adults.
For ages 12 and up.